Incendiary topic

[drscott]

From email:

You're getting at one of my pet peeves -- no one is obligated to be attracted to anyone, to have sex, or even to explain why they don't feel like it. Anyone who insinuates otherwise is off my list of people I'm civil to. I got just about enough of this crap when I was young to last a lifetime. The apparently still widespread "he didn't want to have sex with me so he must have 1) internalized homophobia 2) HIV phobia 3) a perfect-body fixation 4) cockteasing tendencies" is a sign of immaturity no matter how old the person expressing it is.

Comments

Exactly

[ciddyguy.livejournal.com]

I was raised to be a gentleman and so in some ways, some kind of polite way out is the best, even if a simple no.

Unfortunately (or fortunately, as the case may be) just saying no isn't enough for some.