Incendiary topic

[drscott]

From email:

You're getting at one of my pet peeves -- no one is obligated to be attracted to anyone, to have sex, or even to explain why they don't feel like it. Anyone who insinuates otherwise is off my list of people I'm civil to. I got just about enough of this crap when I was young to last a lifetime. The apparently still widespread "he didn't want to have sex with me so he must have 1) internalized homophobia 2) HIV phobia 3) a perfect-body fixation 4) cockteasing tendencies" is a sign of immaturity no matter how old the person expressing it is.

Comments

[dr-scott.livejournal.com]

Bob does the right thing. How other people react is their problem, and if they want to panic, better Bob know right then that that's their levelof competence with the topic.

[ciddyguy.livejournal.com]

That's exactly what I was driving at. Bob is doing the right thing and kudos to him for it.

either way, there is inmaturity wherever you find it, unfortunately.