I know people who have had the exact same experiences of being disregarded. Maybe I'm the odd one (no comments, please, from the peanut gallery). Or perhaps it's a function of maturing, but I find all kinds of men attractive. I like muscular men, hairy men, not-so-muscular men, smooth men, Asian men, European men, etc. I have a friend who watches the men I watch and he tells me I'm the only one he knows whose “type” he can't figure out, although he bitchily guessed it was anyone with at least one Y chromosome and a recent brain wave. He got slapped for that.
These days, the discriminator for me is a developed sense of humor, bear or not.
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Date: 2004-01-26 03:35 pm (UTC)These days, the discriminator for me is a developed sense of humor, bear or not.